THE BULLY DIALOGUES APPPRIVATE / PRACTICAL / PERSONAL

A BOLD VOICE FOR HARD CONVERSATIONS

LET'S TALK
ABOUT BULLYING.

Real situations. Honest dialogue. A clearer way forward - for schools, workplaces and the people inside them.

FIND YOUR STARTING POINT →HOW IT WORKS
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SILENCE
DOESN'T
STOP IT.

DIALOGUE CAN START TO.
REAL STORIES.HONEST DIALOGUE.REAL IMPACT.
01 / WHY DIALOGUE

THE CONVERSATION CHANGES THE OUTCOME

BULLYING THRIVES
IN SILENCE.

Most people know something is wrong before they know what to call it - or what to do next. Bully Dialogues creates a private place to pause, name what is happening and prepare for action.

NO JUDGEMENT. NO VERDICT. A BETTER NEXT CONVERSATION.
02 / CHOOSE YOUR SPACE

WHERE IS THIS
HAPPENING?

STUDENTS / PARENTS / TEACHERS

MAKE SCHOOL SAFER.
START THE CONVERSATION.

YOUR DIALOGUE STARTER
“I am a student. Help me talk through a bullying situation and decide what to do next.”

Start with that line or use your own words. Share only what feels comfortable. You stay in control of the conversation.

OPEN BULLY DIALOGUES ↗PRIVATE BY DESIGN / GUIDANCE, NOT A VERDICT
03 / HOW IT WORKS

KNOW IT. NAME IT.
CHANGE IT.

01

TELL IT
YOUR WAY.

Describe what happened, what changed and what is worrying you now.

02

SEE IT
CLEARLY.

Separate behaviour, impact and assumptions. Notice what needs attention first.

03

CHOOSE YOUR
NEXT MOVE.

Prepare words, boundaries, support or a safe route to escalate the concern.

THE PEOPLE BEHIND THE DIALOGUE

ONE STORY.
TWO REALITIES.

Bryan Schimmel was the victim. Clinton Fein was his bully.

Decades after leaving King David High School, they met again to confront the history they carried from opposite sides. That conversation became Bully Dialogues: a live keynote and podcast that moves beyond easy blame, forced forgiveness and zero-tolerance slogans.

Together, they bring lived experience, accountability and harm reduction into one room.

MEET BRYAN AND CLINTON →

CONVERSATIONS THAT CHALLENGE.

PERSPECTIVES THAT CHANGE.

COMMUNITIES THAT HEAL.

START THE CONVERSATION →
IMPORTANT

Bully Dialogues is a thinking and preparation tool. It is not emergency, legal, medical, mental-health or safeguarding advice. If anyone is in immediate danger, contact local emergency or safeguarding services.